John, you are married and you have the capability to say NO, even IF you were pursued by other women. I am sure women find you attractive, etc., etc., but the fact is, you say NO!
Why didn't you call Elizabeth the evening you "sneaked" in the hotel and spent 5 hours with Ms Hunter and the baby? Instead, you spents those hours in a hotel room and then called your wife! WTF!
Your career is over ....